My [19M] mother [50F] is demanding I pay her back for her years of caring for me. My fiancee [18F] will have none of it.

My mother is demanding I send a portion of my check to her monthly or she will call the police on me and my fiancee. I recently moved out of home to live with my fiancee. She claims that I owe her for her staying with her after high school when I was 18 and going to college previously and raising me. My mom refused to let me take ownership of the car I drove while living with her unless I paid for half and in no way could I afford to so I just left with no car and use my partner's.
My fiancee calls my mother manipulative and tells me that it's a privilege to raise a child and that my mom has it backwards for thinking I was privileged to be raised by her. She says that if I send my mom even a cent that she will be very upset with me unless it was some serious emergency. She wishes that I go no contact for a while at least to clear the air.
It's hard to decide what to do. My mother raised me and although I really can say at times I felt abused and neglected I have little family and would feel bad to stop talking to her. I promised fiancee I won't pay/send her a cent because I do not owe her anything but it's hard when my mother constantly pesters me about how much I make and why I wont pay bills. I feel bad because while I lived there, I was maintaining bills for her. And now that I left, she is furious that I will not help out, so she will have to get an apartment now. I feel bad about but I want to have a shelter for me and my fiancee to live under more than I care about paying for my divorced mother's house. What should I do? No contact? I wish she would stop pestering me. Thanks

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tl;dr: My mom is harassing me to send her money so she can pay bills and guilt tripping me while I have to help my fiancee pay for our own personal expenses and bills. Fiancee is furious about my mother and says she will not sent her a cent. I don't know where I should be at.


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Sounds like you're a cuck for two women, your mom and your girlfriend. Grow some balls and take charge of the situation based on what YOU want, not what your GF or mom wants.
I suggest a 3 month vacation at 1 of 2 lovely places... MCRD San Diego or MCRD Parris Island, depending on where you live. It would do you some good

No child owes their parents anything for raising them. I agree with the gf on this one.