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[Happy Update] How should I [25 F] tactfully ask my bridesmaid [26 F] to fix her hair for my wedding (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
18-Aug-17 4:40 pm
[Happy Update] How should I [25 F] tactfully ask my bridesmaid [26 F] to fix her hair for my wedding without sounding like a bridezilla?

Hey guys! I'm the bride who had the irrational bridezilla panic attack about my friend's hair a few weeks ago. The wedding is happening tomorrow (!!!) and I have nothing better to do with my life than to post on Dating.mobi right now and update you guys (plus, it's calming my pre-wedding jitters).
I want to say, I appreciate everyone's advice from my last post. I really took what you guys said to heart and decided to accept and love my friend for who she is, and not what her hair looks like. I extended an offer to ALL of my bridesmaids to get their hair colored and styled for the wedding, if and only if they wanted to get their hair done. I did it via group text too, so that no one would feel singled out. I was able to get an amazing deal for all of us on our hair, because one of my bridesmaid's cousins has just graduated from beauty school and she gave us a huge discount.
Kat replied back to my text message with a "OMG YES PLEASE" and she practically ran to the salon chair as soon as we entered the building. Apparently she had been trying to ombre her hair at home and had spectacularly failed, then basically said **** it and left it as it was. Anyway, her ombre got fixed and it looks absolutely beautiful, fading from dark to light blue. Our wedding colors are blue and white and Kat said she wanted to match LOL.
Once again, thank you guys so much for being a rational voice among all my bridezilla craziness :)

tl;dr: I was having a bridezilla freakout about my friend's hair and took Dating.mobi's advice to offer a salon day to all my bridesmaids. The bridesmaids all got their hair fixed and they look awesome. Bridezilla crisis has been averted.


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 Critter1211 (11)       (49 / F-MF / Tennessee)
18-Aug-17 5:54 pm
She did her hair to your liking, so this isn't a question anymore.

 

 

 
 
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