Seriously what is the point in telling lies. it makes me raging mad when someone lies to me. there is no need. I'm not bothered if you haven't travelled the world or you do think my bum looks big in those jeans or how many pints at the pub, just tell the truth. I would get more angry being bull sh**.. too then just come out and say. a close friend of mine has found out her boyfriend has been sex messaging someone and he has just lied his way out of it. so yeah I'm having a rant because i wouldn't believe him. but she has told me she wants to give him another chance and please can i not lay into him. I'm so mad but i obviously respect her decision although i don't agree with it. has anyone else been in this position and what did they do. sorry for going on but I've had to console her many times and today again as she cried her eyes out. i just feel powerless :(

Yeah been there done that and if you have a continued issue with her bf unfortunetly it may ruin your friendship of coarse every situation dictates its own outcome but i have lost friends over this type of thing and it frustraiting when your only looking out for your friend and u wind up being pushed aside

No we won't ever fall out because we have been mates 7 years and never fallen out. plus she stops at mine a few times a week and he comes down. This girl who he has been messaging has tried ringing his phone 22 times tonight and he's trying to make out its all her and she's mad. but they are only Facebook friends with her because she is my actual friend and she adds all my friends constantly. she's engaged too. so is my best friend who stops here who also has her boyfriend round here a lot. he is blatanty muggin her over because he has been on his phone all secretive all night. me and my pal have talked all day and I'm quite sure nothing would come between us but there is only so long i can hold my tongue. there is a lot more to all this but its so much i can't write it all. just hurts me to see such a nice lass be taken advantage of.