I just realized it kept a record of outgoing and incoming messages. I seem to have many more outgoing and it's kinda got me thinking. What's going on here?

@DearAgony: There are 5-10 times more men in Dating.mobi. If you get verified you can message more women, & have more responses. And ofcouse the main issue lately... Women are more hesitant (pervs, scammers, etc) And many men, randomly message w/out reading the profiles of women. Or they just say "Hi", "How are you?", "Hey sexy"... Smh.. So then the men are ignored. Because no effort or introduction was made. And women, do not want to do all the work. You could also add or change your profile.. Hope this helps, some what. Good Luck to you.