Why do guys start something then disappear *******s

I really dnt know. . Its one thing when they leave and still help support the kids. . But its another when he leaves the mother alone to fend for the children. Smh storey of my life. . No single ppl. With no kids Wana be your friend cause they single with no kids. No parents really wana be around a bunch of more kids. . Dnt let me start on the financial and relationship issues.

@Bandersnatch: I know I have 3 kids hun

@singlemom3: me too! So you know how it is. :/ I try to keep a motto in mind. . It sure aint easy, but it sure as heck aint hard. Hard is losing loved people in death, and Ive had my fair share of that.

@Bandersnatch: ditto

Wow, you all do know that there are exceptions?

@LonelyCritter: of course there is in the man aspect. . But we were referring to loser guys or even better. . Dead Beat Daddies :)

Well I guess its a good thing I ain't a dead beat daddie and I also raise my lil girl on my own. Its tough but aero g her smile keeps me going.

@BigDaddy03: true enough duuude! There are dead people out there for real! Ive seen chicks taking child support checks, living off any body that they can. . They go buy themselves brand new stuff and dress their babies in rags. . Its really sad, Ive tried to help a few girls even tho I really had nothing to offer her and them babies. But a safe place to sleep, hot bath to take, and a hot meal to eat. Guess I shouldnt give up on people just yet though.

@singlemom3: i hv a friend who was talking to a man whom she realy liked. They started texting. She sent him a pic of her kids and he told her to lose his #. Is this similar to what you are talking about?