Okay for the purposes of this conversation I'm not talking about being insecure as in not having any confidence or a low self esteem... but I wonder if women truly realize that if we were to be honest guys have is many insecurities as women do? We just don't get to talk about them as often... I mean seriously can you hear that conversation hey ram does my b*** look fat in these pants... or hey 4ever how do I look in the shirt.... that's just not ever going to happen... but I think there's plenty of things to worry about the same as y'all wieght looks hair etc.. plus as mentioned in a nother thread weather we will get a response to our first move lol.... anyhow just a thought

So what r ur insecurities?...dont we all boil down to the same ones? am I worthy of being loved?!?

That's my point exactly but sometimes it seems that women tend to forget that men have the same issues.. possibly because we don't talk about them as much... I just thought it would be fun to ask

Guys are not expressive that's the problem but I knew that guys like women have many worries too that are/were failed to address for several reasons which also explains why more men suffer from depressions.

I don't know, if i understand correctly your thread. :D

And to some degree kowboy I think that is becuz deep down we women dont want our men insecure....it feeds OUR insecurity becuz that wld make US lacking in some way becuz u r insecure....like we didnt do something right to fix ur insecurity....we ALWAYS think it is OUR fault...jmo tho

Actually that's a really good thought... I'm actually really comfortable with myself But never heard a conversation on the issue. The more I think about it la dawn that really could be a big reason for it

I am actually pretty comfortable with myself too...but i have noticed with my sisters how insecure some of them are and wondered alot on this subject....becuz truly out of 7 of us girls I AM the 'ugly duckling'....they r just so gorgeous they look unreal....yet of all of us I am the most comfortable in my own skin...I also noticed that each of them think that EVERYTHING in their relationships is their fault....there has to be a co-relation...and they have been

Oops i accidently sent....as I was saying they have been cheated on andlied to and treatedlike crap....when they cld have any man they want....yet me? I have never put up with being disrespected and I cldnt just waggle my finger and get any man....insecurity is such an insiduous lil worm that makes so many feel worthless...and it really has little to do with whether u truly r worthy or not....just with how u see urself....

Sorry I rambled on....