People used to ask me which one is easier, "for a man to join the army & a woman to give birth". And I always say, "I don't know". So now, which is easier & what do you ladies go through in pregnancy throughout the 9 months till after delievery.

well I've never had kids so i don't know either, but I'm scared of marriage cos of the crisis that surround it n being pregnant cos of the pains on the day of delivery. I've heard alot about marriage n giving birth from coursemate, neighbours and friends that are married, but it scares me alot.

Well its not easy but nothing is easy . Women tend to make a heavy weather of it in my openion .

@Crady: The ONLY thing GOOD, about it.(imo) was feeling LIFE inside . For me that was SPIRTUAL connection between myself, my God, my husband. Every other aspect was ******* ! Every womams experiences are different for each pregnancy. There are countless factors to be considered. Including not EVERY woman wants to go thru it, or raise a child. (same for men).

both are difficult and dangerous.as a mother like me,i have 3 kids.and evrytime i gave birth,i was in risk condition.as a matter of fact i've been through cessarian section twice becoz i was vry nervous and thinkng i might die.

@Coolsmile: I will say, for you to enjoy your marriage to your taste, it depends on you & how loving, understanding etc you both will show to eachother. Marriage is knowing eachother & helping eachother to perfection. If your coursemates see marriage as bad, so be it to him. If God is in your marriage, it'll be the envy of others. Remember, you can make & unmake your marriage not advises from your friends etc.

Giving birth is easier. Its painful, but u have a miracle to love afterwards...every ounce of pain is worth it...and pregnancy is only for 9 months

@Crady: mind u, i never say they see marriage as bad neither do i say i seek advice from them, but i said I've heard alot from them in term of having kids n some issues that surround marriage. Which make me scared

@Coolsmile: Proverbs 3:5-6. Though marriage has issues, but you can make or unmake the issues. Love & Marriage is about Learning from eachother (your weaknesses, likes/dislikes etc), Leaning on eachother (be there for eachother etc), Living (sacrifice etc) Open minded/be open, Value who/what you have & this is where problems starts due to lack of value. Lastly, Endure & Enjoy life together but in all put God first.