The guys who send me messages are too old lives the other side of the world or who just want sex all I want is a nice guy who lives close to me I know there are guys on here who do live close I just don't have the guts to message them I will have to just bite the bullet and try lol anyway wanted to know wtf are you ment to say lol anyone wanna give me pointers please x

@nikky1984: A basic "Hi how are you" is a start. Lol. Just ask if they want to talk and get aquainted. Its really not that complicated unless we make it.

@manondago: I don't have enough confidence to talk to guys in case I get shot down

@nikky1984: Well guess what....a lot of the guys you are waiting for are the same way. So you end up looking at each others profiles a hundred times and nothing happens. Getting shot down isn't the end of the world. And if it happens 50 times its worth it when you find the one you're looking for and has been looking for you. Just do it.

@manondago: cheers for advice but 50 times that's a big number

@nikky1984: lol. It won't be that many. Thats just the number I'm at. Lol

@manondago: lol fair enough x

Truth is all the good guys are on this side of the pond! hehe That is why you get messages from guys in other countries like USA :D Never know what may blossom.

@Mr5cott: you might be right but would it not be better/easier to date someone closer I had 1 relationship that was distance and it didn't work

@nikky1984: well same might be said for a closer prospect. Long ago I met someone from Philippines. flew there, met her and brought her here to states and married her. It still didn't work. So everything is not cut and dry. Cheers