And so after talking to my guy for nearly 8 months.....I did a lot of praying and background checking and finding stuff out......things just didn't feel right. Something in my gut kept telling me something was wrong....turns out he's the biggest player going...he's engaged and has 5 kids with 5 different women and not even responsible for any of them.......things came to a head yesterday when I insisted our first meet would be here...he'd have to come to me....and after weeks of fighting and callin him out I guess I was just too smart for him......so I breathe a big sigh of relief that its over before my emotions got too deep or I ended up just another baby mama with useless drama!!

@JstBeinMe: gee, some guys r really mean ! Y behave like a dog...five kids. Girl u lucky.

That's what I'm sayin....and I'm gettin too old to be stuck with one more on my own.....I want someone responsable and is going to do things with me

@JstBeinMe: serves him right,u deserve better ma friend,just have 2 be patient and it will come your way....all the best in ur search and take care:)

@JstBeinMe: just i pray u get a guy that u will comfort with for the rest of ur life.

Thanks guys.....I'm not worried ;-)