That I spent the day with my son and his father on fathers day? My dad is gone, he has no one but me and our son, my son doesnt stay with him to often, so at family get togethers we are together. Birthday, Christmas, etc. I have a friend flipping out about how wierd it is...but my ex helps me out A LOT...we are not romantic at all...but do do things as a family with our son. Soooo is that strange to y'all?

I don't think that it is strange at all. Many people do things like that.

In this world of divided yet we stand families, strange becomes the norm. Who cares what they think if it's not strange to you?

@Briteeyes: Nooooo I wish me and my ex would get along like that for our son but Nooooo only time he's nice us when he wants something

I didn't think it was wrong either. Some people I tell ya...my ex borrowed my extra car for 3 days and paid me $150 (which was half of what renting a car was gonna be.) I needed the money, so was very happy lol. Then crazy idiots wanna dig into crap and make me feel bad. I'm grateful we are able to help each other in need.

I think its great that y'all family do that kind if stuff instead if being bitter. I wish that was the norm

@YouCantFixStupid: i agree! it's nobody elses damn business what you do within your own family. the fact that you can do that for your son speaks highly of both you & your ex.