People forget about what's inside and they go for how much someone weighs. I've date fluffy people and they were the sweetest I've been with. I've been with skinny and most turned into jerks. I give everyone a chance I've learned not to go by how much someone weighs. Its about what's inside. So what if they have more than you. Some say they don't judge people but when they date then they start judging. I guess there's a differnce with dating and being friends. Honesty if the fluffy person treated me better I don't care about his weight I care how big his heart is. I hear people say I don't judge but they wouldn't date a fluffy person, why? Why wouldn't you? I want to hear a good reason why you won't?

i never go by looks or anything.

"Dont judge the book by the cover" and i rather have a man instead of a stick...and dont wanna have to worry bout him being blown over by a breeze or me ! Lol.. :) Oh and nothing against skinny men either! Just saying... :)

lol!

that is good advice.

@MysticJade: well said always nice to listen to someone with there head on there shoulders.

I cant judge by weight cuz i dont want to be judged by mine. i cant judge by looks cuz i dont want to be judged by mine. I am more beautiful on the inside then i will ever be on the outside. A true person will see that and judge me on that as i will in return

That doesn't just pertain to "fluffy" people when you talk about being judged. I'm a smaller biuld in fair shape,average looking and very independent and a I feel like a lot of guys think I'm a b**ch...but I'm not!!! I go on personality and how I am treated.I don't judge,and am very caring.

Ive came to not judge them cause ive dated a few big people and they treated me good then date a skinny person and they treat me like poo. But if I were in their shoes id know how they feel being judged.

@MysticJade: well said, agree totally :)