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Does distance matters? (by holann23)

 holann23 (1)    (43 / M-F / Nigeria)
5-Feb-13 4:29 am
Does distance matters in relationship? I have been turned down by lots of ladies due to distance.I need someone who can cope with d distance prior to the time we meet in person.

 

 

 
 
 rob6594 
5-Feb-13 4:42 am
You only been on a day.... Think you can talk for a couple messages and have a relationship... Lol

 

 

 
 
 Sagoe (2)    (31 / F-M / Nigeria)
5-Feb-13 5:19 am
Well distance isnt a big prblem as long as u love each other

 

 

 
 
 Briteeyes 
5-Feb-13 5:25 am
Distance is a factor...if u can't be with them then they are really just a pen pal

 

 

 
 
 Omgitsjessi720 
5-Feb-13 5:50 am
To me it matters.

 

 

 
 
 JustMeAndYou77 (17)   (47 / F-M / Florida)
5-Feb-13 3:29 pm
Does distance matters in relationship? I have been turned down by lots of ladies due to distance.I need someone who can cope with d distance prior to the time we meet in person.
holann, yes...it does matter a lot. I tried the long distance relationship with a guy overseas and it was just too much time in between and too little action on our parts. There also have been so many bad situations with why people are seeking to marry outside of the country that immigration is not going to be a walk in the park. This causes the two people to have to put more effort and time into it. But, this is the point. It's this way so that people can prove that they are genuinely seeking to marry the person and be with the person they claim to love and want to build a life with. Loyalty to the adoptive country is also part of this. So, my thing is, if both people are willing to take perhaps years to work towards being together and they work everything out, sure...it can work. If they are looking for something quick to happen, nope lol. It wont work. Waiting years to sort everything and still get the same result as not being sincere will give...nope, still wont work lmao

 

 

 
 
 holann23 (1)    (43 / M-F / Nigeria)
5-Feb-13 7:40 pm
@JustMeAndYou77:
You made something clear in your post and its d fact that it can wrk out depending hw and what d relationship is.I really appreciate ur view.

 

 

 
 
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