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So you say youre not single,not looking,here just for friends right? (by JtWhite)

 JtWhite 
18-Nov-12 1:42 am
Fine then-Would you give your bf/gf your username and password to the site so they can see just how innocent you being on a dating site is?I understand love is trust but seriously with the already dominant social networking sites,who joins a dating site for friends?

 

 

 
 
 IrishLove1988 (18)    (36 / F-M / New York)
18-Nov-12 1:49 am
I would say yes. I pride myself on my ability to stay 100% honest as much as possible, without intentionally hurting someones feelings. In the past I have never had an issue giving my boyfriends my passwords for any accounts (FB, Email etc..) after we have reached a certain level of commitment. For myself, I can say that I joined this site with nothing in mind other than getting to meet some new people and maybe finding someone special. If I were to meet someone, either here or IRL, I would still keep this account open. Not for dating purposes, but because I have found a wonderful group of people here who I consider dear friends. I wouldn't walk away from them just because I found a new partner.

 

 

 
 
 JtWhite 
18-Nov-12 1:53 am
I agree!Ive made some friends here as well.I meant the people who were already in relationships and then joined this site.

 

 

 
 
 JLaDawn 
18-Nov-12 1:55 am
Im not sure i wld ever buy ALREADY in relationship but looking for friends....finding love and staying sure tho....and sharing of password mandatory

 

 

 
 
 IrishLove1988 (18)    (36 / F-M / New York)
18-Nov-12 2:00 am
@Jt: I understood the question was just sharing the POV of a regular lol

 

 

 
 
 JtWhite 
18-Nov-12 2:23 am
Yea,I know

 

 

 
 
 JustMeAndYou77 (17)   (47 / F-M / Florida)
18-Nov-12 11:54 am
Fine then-Would you give your bf/gf your username and password to the site so they can see just how innocent you being on a dating site is?I understand love is trust but seriously with the already dominant social networking sites,who joins a dating site for friends?
I didnt, but now I am. And, of course I would share it and Ive also asked. I enjoy being here still Jt. I know youve deleted but just in case you still read this I wanted you to know. Not everybody's relationship is the same, thank God for that!lol But, with understanding, trust, love and open communication it does not mean it's less of a relationship than anyone else's or is just doomed. I am very honest and I would if things were to change for me here. People only have to worry about trust constantly when they're being dishonest.

 

 

 
 
 JustMeAndYou77 (17)   (47 / F-M / Florida)
18-Nov-12 12:01 pm
Wait, I meant share the site not my password lol That causes a breakdown in security for others and nope, Im grown. He just has to trust me.

 

 

 
 
 Greeneyedgoddess1981 
18-Nov-12 1:00 pm
yes i would give my partner my sn and password we r open with each other and i have nothing to hide

 

 

 
 
 hollabak89 
18-Nov-12 1:33 pm
Even if I found a girl on here I'd still keep my profile and just make friends but wouldn't hide it from her. If someone is having trust issues it usually means they are hiding something from you many times.

 

 

 
 
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