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Age or Maturity? Which is more important to you? (by MissNicole2)

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Age
Maturity
Doesn't matter to me.
Little bit of both.
 MissNicole2 
9-Nov-12 6:58 am
For me, it is a little of both. I would not want to bring a man home whom my mother could have created me with. :) Sorry to you guys. I am sure you are great. But that is out of respect for my mother. Mainly it is maturity level. I have seen plenty of people who, because of age, are considered to be well rounded adults. Then those same people cause more histrionics than a 4 year old who doesn't get the toy he/she wants. I have seen younger people be mature beyond their years. So, up to a certain point, age is just a number. This is my opinion. :) Please vote in the poll. If you have any extra to add, comment. I will try to check in.

 

 

 
 
 THEOneRomeoCowboy 
9-Nov-12 7:01 am
Maturity 4 me i like younger but have to be mature

 

 

 
 
 MissNicole2 
9-Nov-12 7:05 am
@THEOneRomeoCowboy: All goes back to natural instincts. :) Many women tend to like older men (exact age difference is dependant on the individual) because the animal instinct is we want a strong man who can take care of business. Many men tend to like younger women because the animal instinct is to be the protector or, for lack of a better way to put it, wear the pants.

 

 

 
 
 THEOneRomeoCowboy 
9-Nov-12 7:08 am
@THEOneRomeoCowboy: All goes back to natural instincts. :) Many women tend to like older men (exact age difference is dependant on the individual) because the animal instinct is we want a strong man who can take care of business. Many men tend to like younger women because the animal instinct is to be the protector or, for lack of a better way to put it, wear the pants.
Are u SURE ur just 19? Wow lol

 

 

 
 
 memphpimp1 
9-Nov-12 7:09 am
I love older women!

 

 

 
 
 MissNicole2 
9-Nov-12 7:11 am
@THEOneRomeoCowboy: :) Yes, I am 19. My family just says I was born in the wrong time.

 

 

 
 
 JustMeAndYou77 (17)   (47 / F-M / Florida)
9-Nov-12 7:21 am
MissNicole, I chose Age. Mainly, because Im in my mid-thirties and it matters if a guy is too young. I rarely, if ever, date men who are younger than me. I am aware that older guys can be just as immature as younger guys, yes. Whereas, some younger guys may mature faster and show more maturity than an older man. However, the real truth to me is, immaturity or not, the age of the individual will determine experience and natural approaches at that age level. My bf can be really immature at times but because of his age, he naturally responds as someone on his age level and his approaches are naturally more maturer whether he puts forth the extra effort or not. At a certain point, a younger man's immaturity will be displayed more because he's still young.

 

 

 
 
 MissNicole2 
9-Nov-12 7:25 am
@JustMeAndYou77: I do agree with that. :) The same goes for everyone depending on what life has or has not already thrown at them. It's just reality. Only place where age will truely mean nothing is in a faerytale. I don't believe in faerytales.

 

 

 
 
 THEOneRomeoCowboy 
9-Nov-12 7:28 am
@THEOneRomeoCowboy: :) Yes, I am 19. My family just says I was born in the wrong time.
I agree darlin lol

 

 

 
 
 WickedSugar (25)   (41 / F-M / New York)
9-Nov-12 7:41 am
I say maturity...i actually prefer younger guys cuz theyre less jaded n tend 2 b more energetic n excited bout things but maturity is more important ill talk 2 a mature older guy b4 an immature young 1

 

 

 
 
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