if you decided you "REALLY"like a guy on here and would be open to dating him, but he lived in say a state or two over.... would you move to that state and in with him, let him move to your state and in with you, or would you just leave it alone and continue looking? i ask because my answer is that if i thought the woman was worth it, id move to them or let them live with me. but id definitely have to know i can trust her either way. i think love is worth that kind of sacrifice.
so please be honest.

I would talk it over with him. Because if it is true, it is worth it. I would be willing to move if that happend. It depends on the people involved though

If we had met and spent time together and felt we were ready for such a relationship i would talk it over with him and figure out which would be best. But yes if theres a love connection beyond the internet then 1 of u should move eventually

its a good question though, isnt it lol

I would think the party recieving the internet out of town guest and the one moving should First find the visitor thier own mo. to mo. apartment. what if your not compatible after a wk or so? i've no issue with relocating but I'd want my own living space at first.

we both need to decide what we think is good for us.

@Twoinchheels: see thats a good idea. however there is the consideration of the mover having to find work to pay for said mo. to mo. lease, not to mention food, and transportation. it would seem easier to me just to just move into my place. but that decision i wouldnt go for unless the relationship seemed like it would last. about 9 years ago, i had one that moved in with me out here from texas and it lasted about 3 years. she still hasnt left my state lol.

@PaulG7719: that should all be discussed and at least 6 mo. planning. monies saved. appropriate job applications mailed to and fro. i've never moved and not taken with me the basics. i'm a planner. spur of the moments have never worked well for me over the typical, 'hey, let's grab a movie, dinner, go bowling. . . '

@Twoinchheels: oh i agree.... i wont jump right in. i have to be sure were both ready and dedicated and that takes time. its a hypothetical question of course, but i like your response. very smart :)!

tlk with them and see what they want to do