What i mean is by the second date the guy is wanting to move n. This happens over an over .I say no dnt know u well enough an i dnt thk that would b fair to my kids. Then im accussed of commitment issues , wnting a toy ..... The list goes on an on. That is usually our last date. I just wnt to date get to know someone not jump into something my kids and i may regret. Am i the only person who thinks this way?

There is nothing wrong with what you want. You set you own pace if they cant except that then they are not for you. But dont give up keep trying till you find the right man for you.

Ty sme times i feel like a visitor frm a dif time. Lol

@Icefire,i think you're right in your opinion,it is better for you two to get to know each other well before someone jumps into your life especially that of your children.

Ty born

Well unfortunently it happens more & more these days. It usually means the guy (or girl) needs stability. With children involved u really have to be careful on who u invite in and who u dont. U know who and what u want in a relationship, dont settle for less and dont rush things to satisfy someone else.

so true bright ,I see my friends kids hrt or confused over an over . Im not gnna settle im nt lonely just alone lol thank yall for showing me im not the only one who thks this way.

No problem girl, good luck. And i like the way u put that...im not lonely, jus alone...i need to remember that. :-)

Ty bright an luck an happiness to u

When the righteous cry for help, the Lord hears, and rescues them from all their troubles. (Psalm 34:17)i knw i we find my true love someday..my faith is sure.