Well ive seen a 1or2 threads about women/girls dating married men .. So heres a story to the ones who dislike this from a girl who was in that position !!
I fell in love with a man who was everything to me at the time, I could tell him anything,I could just be me .. Lunch dates and everything,Flash motels and gifts.. Then 1 day something wasnt adding up like why are we always going away from where we live?? Then i asked him then the bomb shell hit.. He tells me hes married.. I called it quits then he was pulling out the “You leave me ill commit suicide” card .. I had no idea what to do..

He was on my case all the time, I was angry,upset everything - I couldnt believe i went with a married man without even knowing before seeing him.. Felt so sorry for his wife and kids.. Later on he told his wife his side then i got it all, was beatn up and taken in hospital.. i took it from his wife never layed a finger on her.. was judged real bad then the sad part happen his wife died this year and her family now know the truth that i didnt know he was married.. And said there sorrys to me.

@NiceGirlBack:What did u do? Did u continue to see him after you found out he was married? U were his mistress but not 2 blame or at fault , cuz you had no idea he was married, unless u saw him after u found out! All i would have said to his suicide threat is......go ahead and fricken kill urself !

@heikeva: Nope i had stop’d everything after he told me. I went to the point of changing my cell number,home number and moved..

wow thats real deep at least u had the guts to tell her the truth that shows a lot of integrity i give u an a+ on that :)

For months i blamed myself, But the wifes family found out the truth when her now widowed husband jumped into the sack with another women and got her to move in 2 days after he buried his wife. Just thought id share a point a view from someone whos been through it instead of some just guessing that its all the other womens fault.

Hopefully you can heal from this and and i wish you good luck.

I personally find a mistress ( if they have full knowledge of the man's marital status as married & have children ) as a home wrecker , selfish and no integrity ! No such woman in her sanity would do that thing ..

In your case OP , you DO NOT know his marital status hence you can't be blame for what happened and you did a great decision of not seeing him after you discover the truth ! I knew in your part , it wasn't easy .. The feeling of being used , lied and being cheated & hated were of course unbearable and I'm proud of you girl ... You are a strong -willed woman ! :)

@NiceGirlBack: Than you are not 2 blame, and iam sorry this happened to you ! You did the right thing ! What a rotten son of a .....B....!!!

@Princess884: Aww thanks girl . Ive healed it just racks me up to see people blame the other women.. I admit some women do carry on but not all.