Ok ppl i need advice ive known this guy 4 3yrs and always been friends but 4 the last year ive developed strong feelings 4 him and he feels the same way but im worried if we do get 2gether and things dont work out ill lose him as a good friend wtf should i do plz help

i would go for it if he is a real friend you wont lose him

Thanks but im still kinda paranoid bout it ya know

well everything worth trying ♥ ♥ ♥ but there is two different thing between feelings and loving someone ♥ ♥ ♥ or maybe you can have him as a friend with benefit ♥ ♥ ♥ you are sure of what you want ♥ ♥ ♥ try to figure out what he truly wants ♥ ♥ ♥ if all this, is based on recent physical attraction between both of you♥ ♥ ♥ it won't work out ♥ ♥ ♥♥ ♥ ♥

I say go for it also but you both should know the chances of breaking the friendship could be great. I see no problem really if you man is suppose to be your best friend anyway. If you both feel the same way. I would make sure before we started to date by talking about what could happen both ways good and bad.

@lovablesweetyy: ive always liked him r timing was always off tho its just lately ive been feeling like i cnt describe it lol he makes me happy and treats me so good im just scared 2 ruin that

I believe what brats says. Its all true but only u can decide what u r willing 2 do, just follow ur heart that's what I would do. But hey that's me!

@brats52005: i agree wit u and weve been talkin bout the pros n cons of us gettin 2gether and theres just that 1 con thats keepin me from doing it

@lilmama87: oh very good then ♥ ♥ ♥ but just like BRAT said above ♥ ♥ ♥ you need to discuss it over with him ♥ ♥ ♥ let him know your fears and worries ♥ ♥ ♥ if he sees nothing wrong with and he is ready to handle that then♥ ♥ ♥ there is nothing to worry about ♥ ♥ ♥ I am sorry i have to ask this ♥ ♥ ♥ have you managed to find out if he feels the same way as you do? ♥ ♥ ♥ like someone who wants to take things to the next level?♥ ♥ ♥®©®

@lovablesweetyy: hes the one that came 2 1st and told me how he feels and i told him thats crazy cuz i feel the same way n we arent rushing in2 anything cuz we both got out of bad relationships recently and we dnt wna jeoporadize anything especially r friendship