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Being asked for Naked Pictures? (by buttercup10)

 buttercup10 (3)    (42 / F-M / New York)
18-Sep-12 8:50 pm
Why do you meet a guy and right away they think its ok to ask/ request you to automatically send them naked pictures of yourself, like seriously is it so wrong for a 30 year old single mom have respect for her body to diagree of sending naked pictures to a guy you just meet. And if you don't send them the kind of picture they ask you for they just stop talking to you... Seriously sorry that I have respect for myself and dont know you enough to give you what you want, your not that special enough after a few hours of texting to see me like that.. anyone agree or disagree?

 

 

 
 
 Fredrich09 
18-Sep-12 8:58 pm
@buttercup10: I completly agree with u and with them,just dump them cause such people just want to have sex with u and dump u if they would have gotten such opportunity.So just dourge them.

 

 

 
 
 buttercup10 (3)    (42 / F-M / New York)
18-Sep-12 9:05 pm
Thank you I appreciate that. I'm finding it very difficult finding someone who is genuine and not into just sex, I want a serious meaningful relationship with a decent guy

 

 

 
 
 patriots25 (13)   (41 / F-M / Indiana)
18-Sep-12 9:12 pm
I am with you on that lady! Its never a bad thing to have respect for yourself. I typically just dump those when i get that request. I personally don't even send those type of pics to people i know, let alone some random stranger on a dating site.

 

 

 
 
 Fredrich09 
18-Sep-12 9:14 pm
@buttercup10: Dont worry u gonna find ur soulmate.Maybe not at this site but definetly u gonna find him

 

 

 
 
 Andres (105)     (Admin)
18-Sep-12 9:17 pm
Why do you meet a guy and right away they think its ok to ask/ request you to automatically send them naked pictures of yourself, like seriously is it so wrong for a 30 year old single mom have respect for her body to diagree of sending naked pictures to a guy you just meet. And if you don't send them the kind of picture they ask you for they just stop talking to you... Seriously sorry that I have respect for myself and dont know you enough to give you what you want, your not that special enough after a few hours of texting to see me like that.. anyone agree or disagree?
Whenever that happens, just hit them with some Negative Karma and then Dump them as you watch their Karma Score drop instantly. It'll make you feel better while teaching them a lesson not to be so crude. :)

If you are only interested in something serious, I would recommend setting your Contact Restrictions to "Looking For: Dating, Long-Term" and nothing else (except maybe "Friends" if you want that too).

Hope that helps! :)

 

 

 
 
 buttercup10 (3)    (42 / F-M / New York)
18-Sep-12 9:18 pm
Thank you both, I'm glad I'm not alone on the topic lol

 

 

 
 
 buttercup10 (3)    (42 / F-M / New York)
18-Sep-12 9:33 pm
Thank you Andres, I'm not able to give any karma

 

 

 
 
 Aldo420 
18-Sep-12 9:44 pm
I don't understand the thought process that goes into asking a woman for pics like that if you want to see naked women go to a porn site it's way easier

 

 

 
 
 buttercup10 (3)    (42 / F-M / New York)
18-Sep-12 9:46 pm
Lol that's true aldo but u would be surprised

 

 

 
 
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