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I need help letting my guard down any advice please.. (by lace234)

 lace234 
30-Aug-12 8:57 pm
i have a been hurt alot in my life by men playing head games and just being *******s...i have built a wall and have gaurded myself so it wont happen again....and now i like this guy very much and he says he likes me but im so afraid to open up and let him in..im really good at pushin guys away and im afraid i mite have done it...any advice will be gladly accepted thank you..

 

 

 
 
 kris1806 
30-Aug-12 9:11 pm
@lace234:u need to open up & talk about it with him

 

 

 
 
 himfan26 
30-Aug-12 9:14 pm
Shoot I need advice myself how do I get girls to like me I tried everything and nothings working :(

 

 

 
 
 4everteh1 (8)    (35 / M-F / Pennsylvania)
30-Aug-12 9:15 pm
Thats reallt hard to give advice on. I guess what it comes down to is. If you like him..let him a little at a time. If he likes you he will work with you. He will wait till your ready.

 

 

 
 
 lace234 
30-Aug-12 9:18 pm
@kris1806: thank u and thats what im tryin to do..

 

 

 
 
 lace234 
30-Aug-12 9:21 pm
thanks guys i apperciate what yals tellin me..

 

 

 
 
 lace234 
30-Aug-12 9:22 pm
@himfan26: just dont push them take it slow women dont like to be smothered..

 

 

 
 
 abear4U 
30-Aug-12 9:25 pm
Just follow ur heart and it will lead u Miss Hunt lol :-)

 

 

 
 
 lace234 
30-Aug-12 11:47 pm
i dont know i just have a feelin that i need to keep my gaurd up with this guy...i think hes just messin with me

 

 

 
 
 abear4U 
31-Aug-12 1:44 am
@lace234 if ur worth waiting for which im sure u r than he will understand that everything takes time walls r the hardest thing to break down but it starts one brick at a time for we all have been hurt at one time or another but we cant give up

 

 

 
 
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