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Guys or Chicks. (by nicegal)
When you get into a new relationship or just meet someone, How far do you go with you’r past ?? Do you tell them you’r whole past even if you know they could just up and leave??
With me it depends on how comfortable i am with the person. I have told sum guys all about my past immediately and sum i talk to for weeks or months and never tell the WHOLE story to
Its just i get confused, Sometimes you can be honest and truthfull then as soon as an argument starts its turned into my fault, then “Bang” my whole past is used against me lol :) Maybe its just the men in my country lol
Put the cards on the table ! Sooner the better !
Haven't been single much (married 13-lived together with another 7)so I tell majority of my past with the exception of a couple nights-
I mean, I don't drop it all out at once, I let things out here and there. And when I feel comfortable with the person, I will tell them the not nice bits.
*goes back to my shortend life story* .....*shudders*
Personally, I don't wanna know a girls whole life story on the 1st nite...takes away the fun of getn to know someone. Of course, If they've been to prison, or was once a dude, yea, tell me upfront lol. But the rest Ill learn soon enuff....Also, if a girls blabs all her sh*t to me at once, I just start to smell drama and will run like hell
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