Some girls got offended when i said i don't date fat girls because i want to make sure the girls i date are healthy, and they reported me i believe. They said that the phrase fat chicks was derogitory, and i should say thick chicks or big beautiful women. Well, i personally think there is a difference between thick and fat, so i use the word fat, for what it means, and big beautiful women have beautiful personalities and make awesome buddies. That is what makes them beautiful. I tried to say that if i wanted to be derogitory, i would have used fatty, fat a$$, hippo, sasquatch, tub of lard, huge 6itch, or something else just as mean and nasty, but i am not mean and nasty, and i don't think that way about fat chicks. Most are actually very very sweet, and a few of my good friends are fat girls and agree with me. Anyhow, i don't consider mysef shallow, although the two i am speaking of called me that, and i very well maybe, but i don't date fat girls like i said, because i want to avoid having girls with health issues. Not dating fat girls i believe is a good precaution in doing that. If you are offended by what i am saying here, i don't care, keep it to yourself. I will be your friend and talk with you, using very friendly conversation, and offer good advice when i can, if you can see my point of view here. If you don't understand what i am trying to say, and think i am a jerk for having preferences, well forget you, it's better we don't communicate anyway, just move on. I am only seeing if i can still post here. I there are any fat girls that understand what i am trying to say, and will not judge to be a bad person because of this, please by all means, lets talk about something, music, beer, hobbies, past experiences, travel anything. I can be a great friend i just will not be romantic with you, which in my book, is a friend. My definition of friend is someone that has love for another person, with out physical, or romantic attraction. That is what i do offer to fat girls. I am not looking for any "type" of friend either here. I will befriend just about anyone that can be friendly back. I just am not physically attracted to fat girls, there is no problem with that i believe. And i can be friends with people i am not attracted to, which is also i believe is not a bad thing. If you are a fat girl, and isn't going to call me any names, or judge me poorly based on my opinions, like i said, let me know, we will talk, and i will communicate with you regularly as a good friend. If there is anyone that shares my opinions about this issue, just let me know so i know i ain't alone, and if no one does, then i know i am wrong, and i will try to change. Once again, if you are offended i don't care, feck off and don't start drama, just keep going and ignore this whole thread. It obviously isn't for you. I was just making sure i can still post.

I've read what started all of this and my advice would be just to use a little more tact in your posts. For whatever reason, u come across as conceited in a lot of your posts, even if that's not your intention. Plus, you just used the word "fat" 12 more times in this last post...sometimes less is more, Jus sayn...

I agree with Ram....u have stated ur preference over and over again, i think we all get u want a healthy chic so why not jus say that. U dont have to advertise what u DONT want and hurt people's feelings while doing it. Jus say i like healthy athletic girls.....simple enough :-)

I agree with Ram....u have stated ur preference over and over again, i think we all get u want a healthy chic so why not jus say that. U dont have to advertise what u DONT want and hurt people's feelings while doing it. Jus say i like healthy athletic girls, no need to say FAT or THICK at all.....simple enough :-)

Yes man, jux stop using the "fat" word cos it might *** across as offensive to others, many guys share your preference but only say what they want. U are an honest guy but dont let ur open expressions of ur preference make u enemies

I never use the word fat at all i use the term fluffy :) its alot nicer that fat some girls cant help their size

Just say I only want a athletic girl instead of using fat we now your only voicing your Preferences but some may take that as a offense

@gooddude: This will be the last thing I ever say to you, but I feel it needs to be said. You have a problem with what I said to you, how about you talk to me instead of p*ssing and moaning about it out here? No one cares if you like thick girls, thin girls, blue girls, aliens or what the f*ck ever. Get over yourself. I didn't report you. I'm a grown as* woman and I don't need to report someone for being a d*ck. If others reported you, that's your issue. Also, the term *FAT* refers to a deposit of fatty tissue in the body, it DOES NOT actually mean what you think it does. The more you come out here putting big girls on blast the more you just look like an a*sclown. I was never unfriendly to you, in fact I think I was very respectful to you. I simply stated my opinion, which I am more than capable of doing. Lumping people in to a group because they share a common characteristic is wrong, plain and simple. I will continue to say whatever I want whenever I want because that is my right. You may not like fat chicks, but I HATE ignorant poor excuses for men. THE END :)

Why do u think someone reported you? Theres no way for u to know that info unless they told u themselves. Jus curious

coward! start another thread to continue an ongoing discussion and then say that those the thread abt are not supposed to respond! I have NEVER called you shallow(thought it ovr and ovr tho) and had never even commented on the fact that u continually disrespect women by lumping anyone below your standards into a category or 'fat chicks' that you 'don't do, your words buddy not mine, untl u turned around and said u try to emulate Jesus!