wonder why girls want an open minddd guy but let clothes put em off

wat do u mean?

well they wsnt open minded guys but they dont wanna know when u bring a long coat into it lol

Oh you mean your gothic :o

not big time , but my coats a crow replica lol

oh ok i see ur point know n wow that seems kinda shallow to on the girls part if u ask me

just somthing ive noticed n its crap coz every one ive ever spoke to wants understanding lol

i think the coat thing would be kinda cool make a statement man lol

Understanding about you being gothic I use to have gothic friends they all were beyond cool to me :o

i remember my goth days. in high school. i had eyeliner nailpolish. trenchcoat knee high boots and fishnets. oh man i was heavy into it. id have ppl tellin me id blow up the school and dirty looks. obviously the image has changed alot over the years. still metalhead. but i do believe appearance matters. if u wear a trench find a girl that might look like she understands the style. if she doesnt. great conversation starter. lol but as my image changed i felt it was easier for other girls to talk to me.