No i see what ur saying alynn...but thats kinda my point...for u to date someone my age is perfectly acceptable in my eyes but for me to date someone ur age is jut ehh kinda iffy in my books....and i wld wholeheartedly agree ur chances of finding a man with some maturity just increase greatly with increased age, but there are exceptions! whewww this dating crap is difficult!

What put her off was the lie and not the age difference.

I think maturity level is a big part of it,not quite as much the actual age. I do somewhat have 'age limits',for example there is no way I could ever date someone that would be even close to being old enough to be my parent(or look like it). I dated someone 3 1/2 years younger than me and he was so much more mature than someone that was 6 years older than me! But be Honest right from the start about your age :o)

@ vamdoll is the best. i like ur every post, way of thinking etc.
u r the best lady fr me