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Who needs enemies when you have friends like this!? (by VampDoll)

 VampDoll 
13-Aug-12 1:32 pm
You think there's drama on here. Y'all should of been in my living room before. My "best" friend of 12 years has just been outed as the most two faced person I have ever met!! She is really close with someone I don't get on with back home and I've been suspecting they have been slating behind my back for ages. Well just seen the proof, she has been using my phone to go online since she got here and forgot to log out of her facebook, and yeah I looked, I shouldn't of because I've never done it before but I just had a feeling. Well I've never even spoke about my actual enemies like they spoke about me, here's a few gems out of many I read, I'm fat ugly and lazy, I'm boring cos I don't wanna go out drinking anymore, my house stinks of cat sh*t and I'm messy, I'm a bad mum, she only used me to get off the island a few days, my friends here are ugly. It went on and on and on. I have done nothing to this girl in all of time of friendship, forgiven her numerous times for talking behind my back, stuck up for her loads, gave up my bed for her this weekend, spent more money than I should of to make sure she had a good time. I've never been so hurt and heartbroken by a friend in my life. Plus I need a new glass planel in my door because I chucked her out and slammed it and it shattered :(
She is on her way home now and I've blocked her on fb and dumped her on here. Think she'll delete this anyways. I have never done this too a mate. This hurts more than losing any guy. 12 years and this. Sorry to rant(again)but I'm emotional and can't get my head around it all :/

 

 

 
 
 Kitora (14)    (38 / F-MF / Malawi)
13-Aug-12 1:42 pm
I feel u gal.things lyk those made me not to have girl best friend.anyway,lyf z lyk a rollercoaster.full of ups and downs.take it easy on urself.

 

 

 
 
 Hunter0017 
13-Aug-12 1:44 pm
First off your not ugly at all in I dont believe your lazy at all because you have a child you must raise in being a single mother is no joke in how are you boring because you dont want to go out to drink I would much rather stay home in drink instead of going out from the posts I have read from you. Your courageous,intelligent,and hilarious at times in if she goes behind your in talk about you like that shes not a friend at all you welcome her to your home with open arms in that's how she repays you??? That's not a friend there's millions of ppl that would want to be your friend screw her that's how I feel :)

 

 

 
 
 Hunter0017 
13-Aug-12 1:45 pm
And your not fat your just right ;) also as far as im concerned she was just using you for place to crash for free that's not right!

 

 



Last edited by Hunter0017; 13-Aug-12 1:55 pm.
 
 
 Rainbowbutterfly 
13-Aug-12 2:00 pm
Please don't take it in a wrong way :) are you sure she's a friend of 12 years & not of 12 days?

For me , it's very impossible that she would do that after what you wrote the other day about you guys friendship and while I was reading those fantastic friendship tale , I was like wooooowww she's indeed blessed and now it's another twist of a story ?! It's weird to my " normal " senses that things changed as fast as the lightning strikes ....

If what you had wrote the other day was all true then I may have doubts this time because no friend of 12 years sharing the best & the worst will do that stuff to you . Even a 7 year old child will agree with me . If she did wrong to you then perhaps you are just currently hurt that's why you are saying these things ...

I'm sorry but somehow there are things that it's too difficult to absorb ...

 

 

 
 
 Swordsman 
13-Aug-12 2:13 pm
I agree @Hunter0017 not to mention vampdoll is 1 of the nicest ladies I've had the pleasure of talkin to on here.

 

 

 
 
 bazza4u 
13-Aug-12 2:16 pm
@vampdoll: don't let it even play on your mind you're well within your rights to act how you like, she will notice soon that she has lost someone special and then it will be too late. Fat- gimme a break why do we all have to be size 00, bad mum- you wouldn't have the kid(s), not everyone wants to go out drinking some of us grow up, and a messy house which i doubt it is anyway shows it's lived in, and i bet she never paid anything for staying did she ? ? X X

 

 

 
 
 Lexa20 
13-Aug-12 2:40 pm
Awwww vampdoll you are so sooo pretty, that girl was probably just jealous of you. And that girl was deff not your friend you gotta be careful who you give that title too, make sure they deserve it 1st

 

 

 
 
 VampDoll 
13-Aug-12 2:41 pm
Yeah we've been friends since I was 18. I've never said things about her like this and always stuck up for her. When her husband went mental in front of her and their baby 8 years ago. It was me that punched him and got him to the floor, its me that's helped pick up the pieces when she has gone out with bad boyfriends. I feel so hurt. its like worse than a break up with a bf. I told her everything. I'm so mad and hurt. To attack my appearance as well. She used to be big and only lost the weight this year. I was so surprised she looks great and I told her constantly. Feel a fool cos she was saying the opposite behind my back :/

 

 

 
 
 heikeva (69)   (60 / F-M / Bayern)
13-Aug-12 2:46 pm
Iam lost with everything going on from one extreme to the next and dont get me the wrong way girl... but something with all ur stories on here just doesnt add up! And thats just how i see it and my opinion!

 

 

 
 
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