You're right,you do need to look carefully but some(or alot) of men(&women too I'm sure) do not tell the truth and just tell you what you want/need to hear for the time being then eventually the real truth comes out and its not always pleasant. On a more positive note there are plenty of good men,it may take time to find them or for them to find u but it will happen :o)

Tell me. You looking for a good man?
So what is a good man in your eyes?
Let me tell you , no sun, no , moon, no water,
No trees we die, no life can exist.
Love is what you want it to be.
I have bin single seven years.
All I hear is from 18- to 65
Dump your boys for me. Why your boys still living with you. Kick them out. How sick is that ?

I aint looking for MR Right-he deosnt exist, except MR right for me, now that's a hard find

Look to the East then to the West, some where in between you're sure to find the Best.