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I lied to my husband about credit card debt. (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
I lied to my husband about credit card debt.
So my husband 31M and i 31 F have never seen eye to eye when it comes to money. We don't have a joint account so i told him i would be getting a credit card for emergencies.(ive had this credit card for 4 years) Well he recently asked me how much i owed on the credit card which i told him 950 and he was livid. Saying there was no need for me to use my credit card if he give me 200 dollars a week. Mind you we have 3 daughters a 6 year old and 1 year old twins and with the 200 he gives me i have to get gas, groceries, and diapers! So sometimes when i dont have enough i use the credit card. Anyways he asked that i send him a screenshot of my balance and i am stressed. because i actually owe 1950. I just know this is going to start a huge fight. Also he makes close to 2000 a week. In total our monthly bills are close to 1600. I feel he can be financially abusive but i think he just hates me. Im just going to send it to him so i can feel less anxious and whatever happens happens. I know i should not have lied about my actual balance but i just didnt think he would ask for a screenshot.
TL;DR My husband 31M doesnt know i actually owe 1950 in credit card debt instead of what i dolt him 950
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So my husband 31M and i 31 F have never seen eye to eye when it comes to money. We don't have a joint account so i told him i would be getting a credit card for emergencies.(ive had this credit card for 4 years) Well he recently asked me how much i owed on the credit card which i told him 950 and he was livid. Saying there was no need for me to use my credit card if he give me 200 dollars a week. Mind you we have 3 daughters a 6 year old and 1 year old twins and with the 200 he gives me i have to get gas, groceries, and diapers! So sometimes when i dont have enough i use the credit card. Anyways he asked that i send him a screenshot of my balance and i am stressed. because i actually owe 1950. I just know this is going to start a huge fight. Also he makes close to 2000 a week. In total our monthly bills are close to 1600. I feel he can be financially abusive but i think he just hates me. Im just going to send it to him so i can feel less anxious and whatever happens happens. I know i should not have lied about my actual balance but i just didnt think he would ask for a screenshot.
TL;DR My husband 31M doesnt know i actually owe 1950 in credit card debt instead of what i dolt him 950
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