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My boyfriend (28m) doesn?t have sex with me (26f) (by Sparky)
(29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
my boyfriend (28m) doesn?t have sex with me (26f)
before, I thought it was because we both still live with our parents (it?s hard out here, many are struggling. plz don?t judge) & he told me that it?s because he prefers privacy.
BUT he used to literally sneak me into his house thru a window when we first started dating. we used to have sex in his back seat?. and now barely anything.
we?re on a trip, day 3. took an entire week off work to be with him, and at first I?m thinking FINALLY we?ll have some privacy, and I?ll have him all to myself.
we only had sex once. and tbh if I didn?t literally initiate it? I don?t think we would have done anything. our trip will be over in 2 days?. then back to being celibate I guess. we spent a lot and I took a whole week off work, so no trips for awhile.
idk it?s messing with my self esteem. we?ve been together for more than 2 years. we were thinking about finally getting an apartment together but I don?t know anymore?
I hate to stereotype, but don?t men like sex?
I?m thinking about moving on. I crave him all the time, and I make sure to always let him know how much I love him and how attracted I am to him. & it?s not mutual at all. it was so different when we first started seeing each other. I would rather be single than stick around someone that doesn?t like me in that way?
but on the other hand?. we planned this whole trip, just us two. he does a lot of other things for me. he picks me up from work, he helps me get to my appointments, does other very thoughtful things to help me out, which is why I stick around.
he?s a great partner and we get along so well in other ways, and I really enjoy hanging with him, but I feel like without the intimacy? we could just be really good homies, right?
am I just being weird? I?m awake at 3:30am and I?m drunk. he?s asleep. I?m kinda thinking I should have just stayed home instead of taking this trip because it?s made me realize that this might be something I have to deal with for the rest of our relationship?
does he think I?m not attractive in that way? maybe there?s another girl in his life?
I just really need some advice because I?m stuck.
tl;dr my boyfriend is a great guy and we get along great, but he doesn?t have sex with me. should I dump him?
Source.
before, I thought it was because we both still live with our parents (it?s hard out here, many are struggling. plz don?t judge) & he told me that it?s because he prefers privacy.
BUT he used to literally sneak me into his house thru a window when we first started dating. we used to have sex in his back seat?. and now barely anything.
we?re on a trip, day 3. took an entire week off work to be with him, and at first I?m thinking FINALLY we?ll have some privacy, and I?ll have him all to myself.
we only had sex once. and tbh if I didn?t literally initiate it? I don?t think we would have done anything. our trip will be over in 2 days?. then back to being celibate I guess. we spent a lot and I took a whole week off work, so no trips for awhile.
idk it?s messing with my self esteem. we?ve been together for more than 2 years. we were thinking about finally getting an apartment together but I don?t know anymore?
I hate to stereotype, but don?t men like sex?
I?m thinking about moving on. I crave him all the time, and I make sure to always let him know how much I love him and how attracted I am to him. & it?s not mutual at all. it was so different when we first started seeing each other. I would rather be single than stick around someone that doesn?t like me in that way?
but on the other hand?. we planned this whole trip, just us two. he does a lot of other things for me. he picks me up from work, he helps me get to my appointments, does other very thoughtful things to help me out, which is why I stick around.
he?s a great partner and we get along so well in other ways, and I really enjoy hanging with him, but I feel like without the intimacy? we could just be really good homies, right?
am I just being weird? I?m awake at 3:30am and I?m drunk. he?s asleep. I?m kinda thinking I should have just stayed home instead of taking this trip because it?s made me realize that this might be something I have to deal with for the rest of our relationship?
does he think I?m not attractive in that way? maybe there?s another girl in his life?
I just really need some advice because I?m stuck.
tl;dr my boyfriend is a great guy and we get along great, but he doesn?t have sex with me. should I dump him?
Source.
(64 / M-F / Arkansas)Are you sure he's not getting some from someone else
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