I dont care what someones done in their past but my dealbreaker is lying! As a loyal friend i would never disrespect someone and take them for a fool by lying. It doesnt mean i need know what ya did in past, but if ya lie to me i lose all my respect! Ive lived life without lying and ive gone far!and worst is when someone claims undying honesty and its one big fat lie! Im loyal, i trust easy wanting to belive ppl but when they misuse that trust one my faults is i take very long to get over it!

Me to girl. Thats my deal breaker!! Guys dont understand it only takes one time to lose the trust, then their like we dont talk like we used to, well thats cuz the trust is gone, things r different now. I also trust very easily, i look for the best in everyone, but i am very intelligent & i know when im being lied to and i jus wont have it, im better then that. We all are

@Brighteyes1211: Im totally with you. Thing is it scares most guys ****eless esp if got somethn to hide. And with me u can tell me anything and i will understand and try help work it out, but still it doesnt hit home. I wont say every mans like that and sadly ive chosen wrong. It grates me to spend time with someone who misrepresents themselves and ya spends wasted yrs trusting for zilch-its a terrible betrayal for me. Dang i was better of with ist ex who was outspoken, had no tact, but he got to the pt!

@Brighteyes1211: Whats really worse about the lie when its flatly denied. Hell i clda even forgiven the lie, but when one refuses to take responsibility for the lie dang thats way off the charts. Some ppl would really rather be right than be happy! If i gota be alone and happy for rest my life than miserable with someone then il choose that!

I wonder how men feel about woman that also do that to them-i guess its same feeling!

I hear ya!!! Ive had them denie it to, even when i can prove their lying!!! I dont get it, i tell them from the start i dont give no bull s**t i dont expect to recieve any either. If im not worth the truth, ur not worth my time. Plain and simple. I dont think honesty is to much to answer. And like u said if something does happen to where a lie was told, its much better to come clean about it so u can begin forgiving and working thru it together.

Some people get so burried in their lie that they dont know how to get out of it again. Its sad because then their life just revolves around this one lie that probably started as a small one.

@Brighteyes1211: From now lol i think i gona say hey mr im biggest liar ever so dont ya worry about every telling the truth and lol maybe then they will do opposite and tell truth maybe reverse psychology is what works best!

@sammay: And worse is lies cause lotsa anxiety and person wonders why they so anxious always. Must have lots more sl eepless lies than ppl who are honest, cos i sleep like a baby at night!