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My (27F) Husband (30M) of 10 years fell in love with his co worker (20F). (by Sparky)
My (27F) Husband (30M) of 10 years fell in love with his co worker (20F).
To preface, I?m currently 33 weeks pregnant with our second son. We have a 6yo son together as well and this pregnancy has been very hard on me. I went on medical leave temporarily to give myself some rest and ensure our unborn baby was safe. During that time my husband took up another job (he works as a cook both places) and started spending a lot of time away from home. I noticed pretty quickly that he was becoming distant and irritable with me being sick and just coming home moody. He let me know that after work he was going to grab a drink there and unwind there before coming home. I was totally fine with this. One night he came home pretty early and said that he wanted to take us to his restaurant to eat dinner so he could just drink there. I happily agreed as I?m always home with our kiddo. I got dressed up and made an effort to look great. When we were seated our waitress happily greeted my husband and said she was happy to finally meet me. I didn?t think much of this but reciprocated the kindness. Nothing was off about the night, she was super attentive and friendly and at one point stopped to talk more. I noticed my husband sat with this kind of swagger and spoke differently toward her like he was trying to swoon. I made a joke that he should be careful with how he talked to her because she might fall in love and he laughed it off. Weeks after that my husband told me that he was interested in her. She has a boyfriend she?s been with for two years and he flatly told me that he didn?t care if she ended their relationship for him because ?when he likes someone he wants to make sure he has the chance?.
He also admitted that he took us to dinner that night because he wanted us to meet her because she ?means something to him?. To say I was thrown off would be a massive understatement. I asked if he loved her and he paused for a second and said plainly ?? I care about her a lot.? I didn?t know where to go from there. I?m obviously emotional and lost completely because of my current situation. I decided to end my medical leave early regardless of my condition and am currently working again and saving anything and everything I can. Idk where to go from here but the vent helps.
TL:DR- My husband is in love with his coworker while I?m pregnant with our second child.
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To preface, I?m currently 33 weeks pregnant with our second son. We have a 6yo son together as well and this pregnancy has been very hard on me. I went on medical leave temporarily to give myself some rest and ensure our unborn baby was safe. During that time my husband took up another job (he works as a cook both places) and started spending a lot of time away from home. I noticed pretty quickly that he was becoming distant and irritable with me being sick and just coming home moody. He let me know that after work he was going to grab a drink there and unwind there before coming home. I was totally fine with this. One night he came home pretty early and said that he wanted to take us to his restaurant to eat dinner so he could just drink there. I happily agreed as I?m always home with our kiddo. I got dressed up and made an effort to look great. When we were seated our waitress happily greeted my husband and said she was happy to finally meet me. I didn?t think much of this but reciprocated the kindness. Nothing was off about the night, she was super attentive and friendly and at one point stopped to talk more. I noticed my husband sat with this kind of swagger and spoke differently toward her like he was trying to swoon. I made a joke that he should be careful with how he talked to her because she might fall in love and he laughed it off. Weeks after that my husband told me that he was interested in her. She has a boyfriend she?s been with for two years and he flatly told me that he didn?t care if she ended their relationship for him because ?when he likes someone he wants to make sure he has the chance?.
He also admitted that he took us to dinner that night because he wanted us to meet her because she ?means something to him?. To say I was thrown off would be a massive understatement. I asked if he loved her and he paused for a second and said plainly ?? I care about her a lot.? I didn?t know where to go from there. I?m obviously emotional and lost completely because of my current situation. I decided to end my medical leave early regardless of my condition and am currently working again and saving anything and everything I can. Idk where to go from here but the vent helps.
TL:DR- My husband is in love with his coworker while I?m pregnant with our second child.
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