@alynn: I can't explain it, but I have experienced it...met a man at a gas station in passing one morning before work...felt intensely attracted and even a feeling of "oh there u are", like i was seeing an old friend for the first time n a long time. Being the skeptic I am, I ignored it, but on the next two consecutive mornings we nodded hi in passing, then he asked me to lunch. That was all she wrote till a drunk driver took him.

@alynn: actually shlda added....he really was the total opposite of my physical "type" and wasn't anything outstanding....he was just ur average Joe.

@JLaDawn: That is a lovely story and it does sound real. I'm so sorry it had to end like that...At least you did experience love though. Whether it was just for a few weeks, months or years, you had the experience of love before leaving this earth. I think all people really want that.

I have been fortunate to have found it twice...the next time took 20 years to develop and neither love was any less than the other. Go figure!

@alynn: i completly agree with you