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My girlfriend [30F] and I [23M] are just around the corner from "the rest of our lives." She's ready (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
4-Aug-18 11:00 pm
My girlfriend [30F] and I [23M] are just around the corner from "the rest of our lives." She's ready to buy a $300K house, get married, and start having kids. I don't think I'm ready and I'm terrified for what our future holds.

We have been together for almost exactly two years and have lived together for 3 months. She is very settled in her career and makes a considerable amount more than I do. I have just recently started what I hope will be my career, it's the first time in my life that I am making what I consider, "real money." I would not consider myself settled into my new career or lifestyle by any means, because it is so new to me. Her and I have talked about marriage, kids and a life together an extensive amount, but it never really seemed that real to me until we moved in together and these dreams are always talked about. It seems like she can't go a day without talking about our dream home, or how we would raise our kids, how I need to buy a ring or propose. This constant resonance of our possible future has made it all too real and now I'm lost with what will happen with our relationship.
TL;DR: My girlfriend is ready to commit 100% to every aspect of happily ever after and I don't think that I'm ready for that.


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 recluse (0)  (35 / M-F / Uttar Pradesh)
5-Aug-18 5:00 pm
So by above facts I can assume she loved you for what you are. Not for your money not for your job profile. Buddy you are one hell of a lucky man. Please don't mind but now you are behaving like a *****. Go ahead she loves that's very rare.

 

 

 
 
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