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[Update] A colleague (30ish M) that I (28F) dislike keeps trying to force an uncomfortable conversat (by Sparky)

 Sparky (0)  (29 / M-F / Massachusetts)
23-Feb-18 8:12 pm
[Update] A colleague (30ish M) that I (28F) dislike keeps trying to force an uncomfortable conversation with me. How do I navigate this?

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I wanted to post a quick update because a lot of people here seemed as annoyed with this caveman as I am.
I got a ton of great advice (thank-you!), and I started practicing what I would say to his face the next time I ran into him. I also considered alerting the management at the club he chased me out of, but I didn’t have to do that. Apparently he brought it to the club himself and tried to rat me out for my “rudeness,†but it totally backfired.
One of the managers approached me a few days ago and said “Justin†told her about what happened. My stomach sank at first because I thought she was going to encourage me to talk to him, but she said just the opposite. Without even hearing my side she told him that I don’t have to talk to him if I don’t want to. She also said she won’t be booking us on the same shows anymore, and that the staff knows not to allow him into the building on nights I’m performing. She said she wants me to feel safe at the club, and she’s got my back. What a win for sisterhood!
After that, he tried reaching out to my SO who also shut him down and told him to leave us alone. I don’t know if he’s let it go at this point, but I’ve been making notes about everything like some people wisely suggested, and I’m feeling validated and supported.
TL;DR: creep tried to rat me out for being rude, and it blew up in his face.


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