[Update] I (28F) found condoms in my boyfriend's (32M) jacket, but we don't use condoms.

Hi Dating.mobi
So here’s my sad little update to this post. I asked my boyfriend why he had taken condoms away with him. He looked panicked and said What condoms, which then trickle-truthed into having forgotten about them/ he put them there ages ago/ he put them there to put them back/ he didn’t know they were there/ he’d taken them for his own use: ie, none of it made sense and he was clearly making it up as he was going along.
Anyway, I didn’t get a straight answer out of the conversation but thanks to those of you who told me to focus on his reaction because it basically proved to me that something was definitely up (like the condoms hadn’t already...)
So last night I looked at his phone and yup, you all said it, he had been messaging several women to hook up. He woke up and saw me looking at his phone and amazingly even tried to keep the story going even then (‘What messages? I didn’t send ANY messages. Ok just that one message. I SWEAR it was just one message… one day where I sent those messages… etc’).
Looking back on the first thread so many people were saying it was for hook ups or escorts and I feel like I didn’t even see those comments properly til today, it’s crazy what you don’t see until you’re forced to. :( Thanks to everyone who commented on the first post, you helped me feel like I wasn’t imagining stuff. I told him it's over, I'm just waiting for it to sink in for him that I'm not changing my mind and then he will have to move out.

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tl;dr: OBVIOUSLY he was trying to cheat


Source.

You'll take him back. You aren't angry enough.

Look on the bright side, at least he was being safe while cheating on ya

After the pain is gone, maybe the best u should hope for with him is friendship.