My [25 M] friends and even some of my family call me gay because my girlfriend [23F] looks like a guy. They aren't nice to her either.

I've been with my girlfriend for just about a year now. I'm in the process of buying a ring for her so I'll be proposing soon. I'm insanely in love with this lady.
However, I will say she is not my type at all. I've always gone for very pretty, very feminine girly girls. The porn I watch semi-frequently has these kind of women in it. It was definitely a shock to everyone when I started dating her.
I met my girl friend (let's call her Lucy) at a party and while at first I wasn't all that attracted to her I found her extremely interesting. I actually mistook her for a guy and didn't know she was a girl until she started talking. She has very short hair, no makeup, and wears baggy-ish guy clothes. She also has what I'd call an androgynous face.
Part of what drew us together is her interests which are on par with mine. Fitness/sports/motorbikes etc.. I think it's awesome that she loves watching all the games with me and I think it's hot as hell that she rides a Harley.
We definitely started out as friends first. To be honest I naively and rather ignorantly assumed Lucy was a lesbian until she put the moves on me and kissed me one night. I hadn't really thought of Lucy in any sort of sexual way at this point but I definitely enjoyed her company, so I kissed back. One thing led to another and clothes came off. She has the most gorgeous body I've ever seen. It's truly perfect and all woman, when i saw it I was 110% attracted.
I grew feelings for her quite fast after that. A few months later we were already saying I love you and she moved In with me before we even hit the sixth month mark.
My friends won't back off about her. They make fun of her and they make fun of me. They say any guy that wants her has to be into dudes. They're convinced she's trans and will one day want to be called a man. A few of my lady friends say I'm way too good looking to be with a someone like her. They say I'm wasting my time and potential.
My family's thoughts are much the same. My mother says we look like a gay couple especially in pictures. She says she wants me with a "real" woman. She said she's embarrassed I'm with Lucy. I'm too good for her. She doesn't understand what I find appealing in Lucy.
I don't know how to explain to my mother that Lucy is my freaking soul mate. We get each other. We practically are each other. I don't know how to explain to her that I'm not gay despite being attracted to someone that looks like a guy. In a way she doesn't even look like a guy to me. She's Lucy. She has the most adorable face. Gorgeous full lips. Big blue eyes. Plus she's got a vagina... which just so happens to be my main requirement for a girlfriend.
My dad thankfully stays out of it for the most part. I know he doesn't like her but he's not the sort of man to tell someone how to live their life.
My brother [28M] is worse and has told people I'm gay. He even introduced Lucy once as my boyfriend. I think he thought he was being funny, he wasn't.
At this point I don't really know how to deal with everyone. What do I do? I don't know what to say to people to make them understand. Lucy says to just ignore these things, but I don't think I can anymore. I hate when people call her ugly or say I'm wasting my time. I couldn't have found a more beautiful woman that I want to spend all my time with. If we get married there's no way I can let people say these sorts of things about my wife.
Where do I start? What do I say? Do I even bother? I can't imagine cutting my family out of my life but I would for Lucy.
tl;dr my gf looks like a guy. People won't shut up about it. How do I make them shut up?


Source.

1. Have sex with Lucy
2. Video it
3. Focus on your peen going in and out of Lucy's vagina
4. Send video to Mom
5. Profit?

lmfao

lol yes, this should get your mom off your back

Ewwwwww!!!