Ok so I need your advice please! I have fallen out with two of my friends and it's been over a week since any contact has been made, I don't have facebook but i recently found out that one of them was writing about me on there, im annoyed she'd do that but I feel lonely as hell not having them to even text. I don't want to be the one to talk first because what they did wasn't right and I shouldn't be the one to apologise so what do I do?

There's no gain in keepin grudges wit ur friends n vice versa. call up ur friends n settle ur differences. we all need somebody to lean on or someday talk to. However,even tongue n teeth do fight n later they settle up for national peace

@confusedheart: Honestly? Try to move on, you don't need people like that in your life. Cause you are awesome and deserve better, yeah its hard to lose friends (trust me I know) but you have to try and move past it jmo

Both of your advice is really appreciated, thanks! I just feel a bit stuck

Yea, I'd drop that person like a bad habit.....

@WalkSoftly: I feel like I have no one else now, I've known them all my life and I don't know what the best option is for the long run

A falling out over what-something serious or petty? At any rate, sometimes people don't make good choices (like your friend posting about you on Facebook) then again, you don't have a Facebook so, they probably weren't intentionally trying to hurt you(depending on what was said).

Good friends are hard to come by. If it's just a question of who's going to apologize first, be the bigger person and reach out. If there are other factors involved that are more complicated, take some time and evaluate whether they belong in your life or not.

Call them up and tell them I love you, and when you apologize I'll start talking to you again, and you take back what you said on Facebook, or at midnight on Friday I'm gonna stomp a mudhole in your ass the size of Texas..just kidding about that last comment..lol

@confusedheart: Without knowing details of your problem. Imo facebook is evil & sucks ppl in. Id tell them how they hurt you straight out. Then say sorry for what you think you said or did in anger. Forgive them for your own piece of mind. Find new friends to talk with.