Thread: Being winked at

Being winked at (by riluamy79)

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riluamy79
5-Jan-15 2:39 pm

Ok so I have a bit of an issue.. There's a guy on here that has viewed my profile a lot, sent me several messages, sent numerous chat requests and currently racking up the number of times he's winked at me. I've told him, more than once mind you, that I'm not interested.. I've even been pretty blunt. It's nothing against him personally I'm just not interested in him. Question is how do I get him to move on and look for someone that is interested in him without blocking him?

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pinket
5-Jan-15 2:50 pm

@riluamy79:i
think there no way to stop him except u dump him n stop seeing his
mail...or hunt down sm1 for him..if u really wanna help him..lol...but m unavailable

Last edited by pinket; 5-Jan-15 2:52 pm.

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pinket
5-Jan-15 2:53 pm

@riluamy79:or u ignore all his mails since u dnt wanna block him

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WalkSoftly
5-Jan-15 6:57 pm

Quoted Post:

Ok so I have a bit of an issue.. There's a guy on here that has viewed my profile a lot, sent me several messages, sent numerous chat requests and currently racking up the number of times he's winked at me. I've told him, more than once mind you, that I'm not interested.. I've even been pretty blunt. It's nothing against him personally I'm just not interested in him. Question is how do I get him to move on and look for someone that is interested in him without blocking him?

Just out of nothing more than curiousity, why dont you wanna dump him? I, also, dont ever dump people, but Im a guy and dont ever get stalked....at least not by a crazy person lol. Im sure if I were female, Id dump guys though.

And I take that back....I DO have a nutjob female thats always at the top of my "Viewed me" list....but I dont look at it too often. Incessant winks, I agree, wld get annoying.

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riluamy79
5-Jan-15 7:01 pm

@WalkSoftly: well walks I've done some homework on the guy is read some of his posts in forums and such.. He ain't all bad just annoying..

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WalkSoftly
5-Jan-15 7:06 pm

@riluamy79: Oh ok, I understand.....pretty sure I know who ya mean but Ill keep mum on that lol

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southernlady1964
5-Jan-15 7:08 pm

Some guys don't seem bad at some point js but all he is doin (from someone who has been stalked) it might for ur safety dump him. It's like an abuser sayin "i'm sorry" and does it again. Be careful

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riluamy79
5-Jan-15 7:10 pm

@WalkSoftly: yea here's a hint his user name starts with w and no it's not you walks

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LaDawn (11)

(50 / F-M / Oklahoma)
5-Jan-15 7:52 pm

Why not just ignore him? What can an annoyance on a dating site do to impact your life? One-sided chat requests, messages or winks are not a problem for me...if someone wants to waste their time let em...makes no never mind to me.

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SammyToo
6-Jan-15 12:14 am

And I take that back....I DO have a nutjob female thats always at the top of my "Viewed me" list....but I dont look at it too often. Incessant winks, I agree, wld get annoying.[/QUOTE] Well, I told you, I view you almost every time we inbox....lol! ;)

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