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Need advice. (by spyder2389)

 spyder2389 (3)      (35 / M-F / Georgia)
21-Dec-14 1:06 pm
So I am dating a black girl. My family isn't fond of this at all. They're not racist by any means, they just don't believe in mixing race's. Anyways, my mom told me flat out that she was deeply disappointed in me. She said if me and the new gf work out she will disown me. My question, would it be wrong to choose my gf over my mom in this situation?

 

 

 
 
 Zilya777 
21-Dec-14 1:42 pm
@spyder2389: Imo this is not about race, but your mom's fear of letting go of you & control. Perhaps if your search you & your father's history / her, you may see she has a issue.

Genesis 2:22-24 (KJV)
And the rib, which the Lord God, had taken from man, made a woman, and brought her unto man.
And Adam said " this is now bone of my bone, and flesh of my flesh":she shall be called Woman,because she was taken from Man.
Therefore shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.

 

 

 
 
 pinket 
21-Dec-14 5:28 pm
So

I am dating a black girl. My family isn't fond of this at all. They're
not racist by any means, they just don't believe in mixing race's.
Anyways, my mom told me flat out that she was deeply disappointed in me.
She said if me and the new gf work out she will disown me. My question,
would it be wrong to choose my gf over my mom in this
situation?
...not racists....but dont blv in mixing
races....???n will also disown u if u go ahead with ur black gf???hmmmmm....sometimes we find it difficult to always call a
spade a spade...

 

 



Last edited by pinket; 21-Dec-14 5:31 pm.
 
 
 1946txx (1)   (78 / F-M / Texas)
21-Dec-14 5:51 pm
Relax and go with the flow - unfortunately we can`t control all aspects of our lives and please everyone - time will tell - you will know the answer.

 

 

 
 
 SammyToo 
21-Dec-14 6:16 pm
I agree w Pinket, would they disown you if she was white?

 

 

 
 
 pinket 
21-Dec-14 7:07 pm
@SammyToo:of course they wont if she's white...his mum said she's DEEPLY DISAPPOINTED.

 

 

 
 
 pinket 
21-Dec-14 7:12 pm
@spyder2389:..your mum is threatning u emotionally n trying to make u obey her under compulsion...

 

 

 
 
 pinket 
21-Dec-14 7:14 pm
@Zilya777:we sue pple for threat to life...threat to this n that...isnt emotional battery like this also a threat?

 

 

 
 
 pinket 
21-Dec-14 7:17 pm
@spyder2389:in as much as we hv to obtain our parents blessings b4 marriage it shouldnt be under threat..or being subjected to accept some difficult life changing decision such as this....

 

 



Last edited by pinket; 21-Dec-14 7:23 pm.
 
 
 rulost2 (35)     (54 / M-F / Mississippi)
21-Dec-14 7:49 pm
My advise to you is go with the titty you suck on now not the one you use to suck on

 

 

 
 
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