@Zilya777: no. I sawed off my daddy's double barrell shotgun. I was pregnant,a bad neighborhood... with my 1st son ,walked to work @ 5:30 am & back 3:pm. Got shoved on Independance BLVD. 7 mos. pregnant. robbery. my oldest son & i survived. dad die in 84. son born '85. no weapons around my sons. it was survival when someone threw me in the streets to rob me.sorry. hope no one took me wrong.

@manondago2: never said nuthin bout shootin blanks with a hand pistol.

Ohhh I will! And hopefully there's some videos! Lol

Ive in the past been where all WOMEN have been. your all right. none the less, it hurts. im. alk for overcoming. lol

@leadonna: "narrow escapes" & "near misses"..;-) . After all, it's what we tell ourselves that matters ;-)

@Zilya777: no option for longer?

My answer is: when it happens.
Some times it happens fast, other times it takes time.

I didn't realize a poll can have up to 10 options, & that the number has to be typed in. Also, I read that experts ( In Psychology & Matchmakers too, lol ), say that if someone doesn't make a 'commitment'by the 6 mo., chances are they never will. *shrugs* But, I did want 2 more options, just for my own curiousity.

Thanks, I'll hang in there, not throwing in the towel just yet so to speak. But never really have fallen in love with someone before, never been given the chance. I'm a great person on the inside but it just gets very discouraging when I'm judged for my lack of looks because I don't fit the cookie cutter standard of "good looking" and not for who I am.

@Zilya777: that's interesting. Though commitment and love are two different beasts entirely