Can arguing really be the key to lasting love. Britain’s longest married couple Joe and Sally Littlewood reckon arguing lots has kept them together for more than 75 years. Many psychologists agree - but what about you. Personally I can’t think of anything worse. What about you?

Personally I like to argue as little as possible but arguing here and there I believe is healthy for a relationship. It shows your significant other that you care about them. I know it sounds backwards but its true.

I like to think or arguments as health heated debates.

An argument here and there is normal. It keeps the relationship growing, there are things we won't understand about each other, passionate subjects, little annoyances...it's normal to hash it out over those things.

@james85: I've never seen any relationship without argument and that makes me believe that it's normal in a relationship & also in marriage

If you dont argue, how can you have hot make up sex?