Y cant men just step an b a father! Sometimes i wish i had melody with someone else!

The right guy will come along someday just wait & see.

Ok here's MY opinion...most 20 y/o guys actually have the mindset of a 14 y/o with his 1st hard-on. They wanna play video games n stick their new found "toy" in the 1st available hole n will say anything to get there. Chalk it up to a lesson learned and the nxt time u sleep with a moron(which this guy seems to be) use a condom, be on birth control, AND make him pull out.Can't take too many chances with moron sex.

@airel: iagree my baby s dad walked ou on us ifeel like u do. Im at the point i realize it is what it is and wont change. Im a single mom and isee its better that way for me andmy son. Blessed be kimmy

so u no this guy was not 20 for 1 an for 2 the first year an ahalf was amazing it was not just random sex i was on bithcontrol an was using a condom so that was not the case everything changed when i got preng because he was not ready so thanks for trying to make me sound like a dumb ***** but im not life happens an i would not take melody back for nothing but dont post on something if u no nothing about it an wana n rude!

.........i no keep ur head up i no its hard

@MrRamtasticAkaRam318: That was so well put:)

@airel: Wasn't being rude at all. Jus going off the limited info u provided. If u only want positive responses, plz state that in ur original post....Oh, n 1 and 1/2 yrs doesn't NOT make him a moron

Well really ur being rude i was down at the time an i dont need someone putting me down even more a good word for u is a a**hole an u can take ur words else where! I dont need them! Its not my falt he didnt step up an u dont have kids so really u have noooo clue what im talking about get off the single parents page if ur not a parent!

Ram is a parent OP ( a note to inform )

I understand your emotions and your frustrations and only YOU can change things into better gradually by taking baby steps day after day until you can fully move on. I knew the pains , I'd been there and it's not easy and now my daughter is almost 11 years old. Many single mothers get through of the pains and challenges and surely you'll do as well ....be strong