Want a man who is already established. But a real woman will be there through his struggle, succeed and together build an empire.

@BlackLabelx: I totally agree. I would love to have my next serious girlfriend just get in my truck with me and just ride around. However the chances of that happening are slim

If he's moving in the right direction, that's what's important...

@BlackLabelx: its not that most women want a man thats astabtioned its that we want on who knows wh at he is doing and wants and activly try if hes not there some women will help him there but thats just my view

You know what I decided after my divorce well I guess it was actually after trying to date after my divorce but either way I decided I'm going to stop trying to figure out what the hell it is what women want because most of the time if that's where the fOcus is but I'm not really be in myself so I decided to hell with it I'm me she Either digsit or dont and if that means I gotta Stay single then so be it i kinda like me

Women are like cats. They aren't sure what they want...just sure they want more of it.

They same could be said of the guys. Just because the last one took half his stuff does not mean the next one will.

I know what I want a nice ice cold beer

and a shot of tequila

@mrb89: I'll buy the beer you get the tequila :) lol