Yep, sometimes it goes that way...

very true

@sweeterthejuic3: Trust plays a huge part in a commited relationship. For me, if I can't trust the woman I'm with then I won't be with her. If she's making new friends I'm more interested in it playing out. If I find she can't be just friends with men then at least no more of my time would be wasted.

@tat2d1976: Trust is a huge part, and I'm not excusing cheating, but I understand why it happens. I think even if you trust her A LOT, how much would you trust her new guy friends?

Don't get me wrong, I am not a jealous person, but if one day my man's texting Monica and the next day he's texting Amanda...and I dont know those b*tches, I'm gonna have questions lol.

@sweeterthejuic3: questions. are ok.lol. guess Id rather know she's txting than for her to keep it from me. at least then I feel she can be trusted. I am also a lot more open and understanding than most men I know

@tat2d1976: I see where you're coming from.

If my man had any kind of sexual relations-including sexting-w another woman, I would break up with him because obviously we do not want the same thing in a relationship nor have the same definition of the word 'commitment':(

My ex wife started texting a guy when we were married. Then it turned into flirting followed by some saucy text msgs that seemed harmless at first then it got real fast to the point where she actually went out and cheated on me. If your in a relationship be committed to that person. If your having problems talk about it and don't argue.
The problem is relationships need communications. If they are not getting that then they will go to a website like this one or turn to a friend. Then when you think that harmless texting with someone other than your bf/gf/spouse turns into playful sexting, most times people will want the real thing and will act upon that desire.

Ditto.

Im not so sure its cheating .your only exchanging words at the end of day no act has really took place I just think talking sex and doing it are not the same