Wow

yea..I'm not proud of it..it just happened but it didn't end good either

texting? Not so , much unless you are leading up to other stuff [nothing wrong with making friends] anything beyond friendly chitchat? I'd say yes. Obviously there are verying factors, but overall yes it is cheating

@xlace75x: Well it's a lesson if nothing else...

very much so and yes a friend on here told me not to do it but I didn't listen

Innocent txting id say no. Sexting in a committed relationship is cheating..unless of course its with the one you're in a relationship with.

@mrb89: As far as the texting goes, I feel like it depends on the timing, how long they've been friends etc...

@tat2d1976: I think the only way that texting remains innocent is if there is ABSOLUTELY no attraction or the friendship has been established for a while.

@sweeterthejuic3: That would mean making friends of the opposite sex is forbidden once you're in a relationship? I can't say I agree with that. Most of my best friends are women. They are much easier to talk to and I'm talking strictly plutonic.

@tat2d1976: Nope, it's not forbidden. That's where I go back to timing, though. My best friend is a straight male. We've been best friends for 10 years. Has he asked me if I wanna have sex? Sure has. I feel like at some point at sometime lines get a little blurred. Maybe you're just really good at keeping things platonic.

If I'm exclusively dating someone and all their friends are women...cool whatever. But if he starts showing up with NEW girl friends and texting all these new women, that's a little cause for concern...