@anichole: I was replying to the OP...talking about returning Messages that we receive. We make judgements based on profiles and pics, not on a persons personality. Simply because any judgement we make on personality @ that point is a hazarded guess at best.

@EagleEye37: Personally I cld care less what someone looks like. I rarely reply to anyone's message. I base my opinion of members here by their forum conduct. When I was looking for dating then I just guessed whom I might be interested in and went with it. My only criteria was that they were taller than me.

@LaDawn:
Lol

@EagleEye37: Yes its possible for some on a dating site. Id reply to a message b4 a wink. Cuz a message is more personal then a wink. Can learn more bout a person through forum posting & messages. Imo

@im1made4u:
The flaw with that is wasting your time writing a long message just for the woman to ignore it. Time wasted. That's why i use the wink.

very true

I agree with eagleeye on the wink thing bc i mean i have personally had that experience by the way you shouldn't judge by my name

@EagleEye37: That's your opinion. First messages don't have to be so long. A wink is lazy imo. Most of the messages i get point out my looks not my profile or personality. My question is: do men look past a pretty pic & read pro profile?

I have to agree with the men about the winks. As I've said before, a wink on here is like a smile across a crowded room in real life. If a man smiles across the room and catches a woman's eye why on earth would they risk first contact without having received a smile back? It is not laziness to send a wink but rather imo it is arrogance to ignore one because it wasn't good enuff.

@Bigdickbutsubmissive: I been here awhile so believe me when I say this but their has been lotta women harassed or had very nasty things inboxed to them so when you put u have a big d.ick in ur name they are bound to judge outta instinct im not tryin to be rude nor pick a fight LaDawn is right allot of women do look for your conduct on the forums to even if they do not post they may be lurking