Dang it Ram! now my whole long typed response saying what u did wouldnt post cuz we posted at the same time!!!!! I had added that if a man "feelng good" by smoking an illegal substance is more important than ensuring that my kids and I are not possibly being affected by ANYTHING illegal he aint the man for me!

People have different boundaries. Some will date a pot smoker, some won't. Some want a 20+ y/o guy who plays video games, some don't. Hell there are evn women, tho few, who want to marry serial killers in prison. Its an odds thing. If ur a pot smoker or video game addict, the pool of women who WUD date u is smaller. Not a judgment on ur lifestyle, jus the way it is.

It could be anything.

@MrRamtasticAkaRam318: thats ok i know the pool of potiental ladys might be small, like ya said but if ur like me and work 6 days a week at a very physically and metally demanding job like i do and are a pot smoker and gamer and use the rest of my time when not workin, or trying to relax, sleeping i dont really have time to for anything else iam dead beat when i get out of work and jobs round here are very hard 2 find espically after me workin there for ten yrs we finally got bought out from company that has benifits and paid everything now, and iam not going 2 quit now, finding a job is hard now a days but one with full benifits is harder to find round here espically without a degree of some sort. i do look around and try here, where i live and always waste my breath, fail and always pushed away iam a pot head and gamer cuz those are what relax me and keep me sane. Its going to be a long road ahead but iam willing go the distance as long as i find what iam looking for in the end

Well said .