How long would you all see a person before introducing them to your kids? I am just wanting to see what everyone thinks.

Probably depends on the guy....whether hes good with kids or not....as a guy, I like to wait at least a month or so....just to see if me and the girl have a chance....then meet kids, albeit slowly....meet for a meal somewhere, maybe a movie.

I agree with Walks on that, get to know each other first, see where its going to go first before you bring the kids into it

Thats close to what i thought. At least 6 weeks or so. I had guy want me to bring my son the first time we met and it seemed super strange to me so i didnt go at all.

yea thats way to soon, you did good

I've only introduced my kids to one person I was dating and only my son met him. I don't regret it, it was a clear sign that day that he and I wasn't a good couple. I've arranged for my kids to meet another, but plans fell thru. I think u should be together for a while before bringing kids in the mix, but it also would depend on their ages. Younger kids I would be very careful with.

Well i met my bf while working together and we hung out for like 3 weeks and at the end of the fourth week we took my daughter bowling... And they are very fond of each other and i couldnt imagine my life without either of them

I'm not so sure. But it definitely depends on the guy. Regardless I'd wait as long as I could because I've introduced my son to a couple of bfs in the past after a month/couple of months and those relationships never worked out. So I'd rather now spend a good amount of time getting to know someone first.

that's a good point there because you don't want to go changing man and you child can't keep up

I wouldn't want my son to get attached and then have his feelings hurt.
So kids definitely come first.