:) Agree. I would want to too. I probably would be tracking the guy.. and definnitly wondering.. When the woman, if ever, comes to her scenses, & leaves him. Unfortuately, that is when a woman is most at risk. The perp, can not except.. The seperation & lack of control & power.

@Zilya777: Biggest problem is they live together, so in a day or so he'll be back. Worse yet, she'll let him.

@Keplar1973: I have seen a few women who have actually defenfed their abuser.. Making excuses to themselves & others & even phycicaly attacking the person..trying to defend them.. Sick, sad, pittiful cases..all the way around.

@Zilya777: You got that right. I gotta say it tho. I was always toght that a man who hits a woman has no backbone. ..... gotta get to class, be back later.

@Zilya777 you are right when you leave it is th emost dangerous time as they will do all they can in their power to get you back as they cant handle not having any power over that person. Im still going through all that,ive had to move away from all my family and friends so my daughter's dad doesnt know where we are so now his started going round friends housing trying to get information.its sad and pathetic and its been the best decision of my life cutting all my ties with the lowlife!!x

@libra25: Bravo girlfriend. :) Freedom always has a price. But if the price is to LIVE without FEAR, it is worth it. :)

[Warning: Posting E-mail Addresses is not allowed. Please follow the rules.] Thanks hunny,only took me 6 years to realise it but better late than never.You are so right,we might be away from everyone we know and love but its the best feeling in the world for both myself and daughter being free and happy :-)) x

@Keplar1973: not wrong there who do blame for the volience our video games what people play or them? Personally I would blame the person no one tells them to smack the s**t out of people

I have to blame the indevidual too becavse everyone has an inborn sense of right and wrong. even if no one tought it to them.

@Keplar1973: next time someone asks what you looking at respond with don't know haven't got my animal book you maybe surprised how they react.