I'm nearly 30 and I've never been in love, and you think waiting 2 plus months is forever. come on dude. I'd wait til I'm 60 to find something true and amazing. patience is a virtue. you're 22 so you have plenty of time :)

There are superficial ppl on both sides ppl who jurt dont look deeper and are only looking for the hot chick to have sex with as you put it that will never go anywhere with a real woman of substance which is what some of us want to find i have been here only since april and havent found anyone yet but i dont blame the site its just life my friend and saying your looking for a hot chick to have sex with isnt doing you any help, just my opinion

OP , it seems that you haven't been active for awhile here ?

Your emotions is understandable , because basically you registered in a dating site to find a date , romance and love yet bear in mind too that we are all strangers here so it would not be easy to find what we are looking here . Take a baby steps if you really want perhaps a lasting relationship

I was on here for several months and met my man here. Though i wouldve waited a whole lot longer. Sometimes it takes months sometimes it takes years. Why did you erase the topic by the way.

Nothing in life is guaranteed, even this site:) Its just another tool to help find watevr it is you're looking for. Still continue to hang w friends, go out, etc....Any fisherman will tell u that to catch a fish, sometimes u have to put more than one hook in the water :) And, on a side note, any potential woman that u mite meet here can read every thread n post u make...and whining isn't very attractive. Jus sayn. Good luck

Yeah negativity will not help you. be confident but not arrogant, have a laugh and joke with people and don't take this all too seriously. me personally needs to be with someone who see's the glass half full. if i had a boyfriend who was over sensitive and moodie, well he wouldn't be my boyfriend long. just chill and enjoy. and yeah good luck :)

You're assuming those 50 messages on the paid dating site are from legitimate users, and not "date bait" employed to convince you to pay. Read this.

@Andres: wow andres i didnt know this, and i was on that site for awhile.
looks like you have to be careful everywhere.

There's an inbox and profiles here? Lol just kidding i already knew that although i don't use them. The party is in the forums and it's the most interesting party on the web. If you think it blows then maybe you'd prefer a pity party? Good luck hooking up that way though. Not trying to be mean, just being real. Complaining about someone putting in alot of work so you can enjoy it for free is kinda like a child throwing a tantrem at disney world don't you think? If you are afraid of mickey mouse you don't have to shake his hand you know...

I went to Disney land when i was about 6 and i ran away screaming from goofy when he tried to shake my hand....
sorry off topic :)