Now that im single and over my x wife i wonder. Is it really whats on tha inside? i put myself out there on a few sites cause i was bored and thought i could at least meet a friend. Everything from craigslist to dating sites. And on craigslist i found this ad that sounded up my alley. She put i just need someone to talk to. She said maybe more than friends if tha vibe is right like that. So i emailed this ad back. Despite tha ad sayin pic for pic. I emailed w picture and was up front and honest. I traded two emails w this chick and i seen her pic and she wasnt tha cutest of tha bunch but i didnt care. My whole intention was friendship anyway and if tha vibe was right i was gonna go w tha flow. Now she asked how tall i was and i said, five six. Sent that pic and get an email back sayin i wasnt her type. I said really how so.in tha ad Said she wanted an affecionate man, and all tha right words for me to even contact her by email number one. She turn around say ur just not my type. I left it at that.

Though what's inside matters most but it's normal to have preference physically . I definitely believe its dishonesty if a person's says he/ she doesn't have any physical preference when dating online or in ads . But , when everything starts in friendship then I think physical qualities does not really matter but the connections you both have .....

Because she was shallow. Whats inside does count to me and a few others that i talk to on the forums. You just have to get to know them. There are the shallow type too no matter where you go. Just be cautious and dont expect too much from someone right away. It helps from feeling bad. I guess for me having bad relationships most of my adult life can actually say the interself of the person is most important. But for a relationship some attraction has to be there also. But as for friends only she was shallow. She was looking for a specific type of person. But remember this each person learns a lesson in life and we move on till we meet the right person thats willing to make sacrifices the same as you to make things work. Good luck.

I wud look at I this way...At least she was honest n sayn u weren't her type and didn't waste anymore of ur time. Try not to take it personally and move on to better things.

this is true

It is what's on the inside that counts but usually something on the outside that makes one want to add it up. There is nothing wrong with wanting both

Well it jus shows friendship isnt what she wanted in the first place cuz if it was then rather u were her type or not wouldnt have mattered if u were jus friends

Well said brite.